General Chat Thread

[crazysam23]

Well I have a trip to Denmark coming up, so I hope that turns out fun.

Nice. Have fun, man! Meet some Danish women or something?

[Grungie]

I hope to

[Sprink]

Been in the WoW trap and trying to fix my sleep.

Had like a 4 hour long argument with my ex because she was being stupid and taking extremes on something that was her fault so we're probably not going to continue our friendship. Unfortunate but she was a lot to deal with sometimes.


I'm pretty sure I only had one ex that I still talk to and can actually look fondly upon now. Every single other one was just incredibly awful.

[Grungie]

If she's crazy, you might have to cut her out

[Sprink]

Thing is (with out going into much detail) she basically wanted to do just that, but because we didn't talk quite as often as we used to. Which for like 1/4 of this year so far I was extremely busy while my Sister-in-law was in the hospital. On top of that she's almost impossible to regularly talk to without losing your mind due to how socially complex she is. After me asking why she cut contact from numerous sources, she tries to blame me in every way and act like it isn't her fault and then after going through the steps of conversation she does a 180 playing the victim card saying she's always guilting herself and that she isn't blaming me.

So, I told her if she really felt like that was going to help her go ahead, but to not play her dumb games with me when I'm always a message away.

Ex-partners are some of the most difficult people I've ever encountered in my life.

[crazysam23]

My advice, don't even acknowledge the bitch. (And I use "bitch" deliberately.) She sounds manipulative and like she'd rather you change without ever changing herself. That isn't the kind of thing any man should want to be involved with.

[Grungie]

I've never had problems like that with any exes. This is why I don't associate with crazy girls.

[Sprink]

All of my exes have had some sort of social ailment that makes them so unreasonable it's ridiculous

Pretty sure I've went into the borderline abuse one that was around a year and a half ago, then there was the one who didn't realize when she was being unreasonable and pissy and was too enveloped in Final Fantasy XIV, then this one was right after

But yeah, there's a reason I only speak to one of my exes, and it was one that I'm still on really good terms with and has honestly been a nice person to talk to over the years.

Guess the moral of my mistakes is to not get yourself involved with people unless you absolutely know how they behave on a personal level. Always seemed like knowing a person, even for a while but not taking the time for personal ties really doesn't let you see someone's true colors.

[Grungie]

I have a few red flags that I always use, and if more than one go off, then I try to stay away.

[Sprink]

Honestly I've been kinda done with relationships ever since.

If something comes to me, cool, I'll pace it for a few months and if I see something go wrong I'm setting the barrier and calling it that. It's really not worth the inane anxiety attacks worrying about whether or not I'm wrong when it's further from the truth.